The Joyful Stepmom
Posted on September 11th, 2020

Stepmoms, I'm excited to share this resource for you! A few weeks ago I saw Heather Hetchler do an IG video that she would be working on some school and COVID resources. I reached out and said "Please share with me! The Joyful Stepmoms need help!" And here we go! She has created a resource to help you navigate these crazy times.

So many school districts have opted for remote education this year due to COVID-19. These are uncharted waters for all of us. Navigating it between blended families is turning out to be really different for some of us.

Heather Hetchler of Learn2Step has put together an online video presentation to encourage you. If you are struggling to wrap your head around Remote Learning - how to help your child, routines, navigating two homes, etc - this is a great resource and will help to pave the road to success.

I was able to view the presentation and loved the clear information. Let me also say, Heather has such a soothing voice! Grades are divided into sections and age appropriate information is shared. My husband is a high school teacher, doing remote learning right now. I appreciated the sensitivity to this age level and encouragement on ways to stage engaged with your teens.

There is hope, stepmoms! Resources are available and I wanted to make sure to share this with you. 

Posted on August 7th, 2020

Do we have any gardeners? Or wannabes like me?

This is my patio and each summer I throw seeds in this flower bed and hope for the best. My husband waters and weeds, and at the end of summer let's me take credit for it 😂

This summer it's become my little place of mental rest. I don't take my phone or devices out here. I just step outside for a bit, even 5 minutes! And I pause.

 I let my mind and heart rest. What do you do or where is your place of quiet?

Psalm 46:10 Be still.

Posted on June 28th, 2020

The past couple months have been trying on the mind and heart. We're all dealing with a little extra stress in light of recent world events. If you're like me, routine has gone completely out the window.

One thing that should not fall by the wayside is our quiet time with God. Even just a few minutes a day should be made a priority to keep us close. If you are struggling keep focus, I'd like to show your a daily devotional from Bible Gateway.

This devotional is a short morning and evening reading. The Charles Spurgeon Morning and Evening devotion takes you back to the classics. The audio is also provided. 

Posted on March 18th, 2020

We love printables! These are Word documents you can print and post on the fridge, carry in your Bible or purse. I think you can open on your phone and save too!

During this time of uncertainty, we wanted to share hope. These printable pages are free. Free to print, share, whatever you would like. Please spread the hope and love! Click on the listed item to open the document.

Verses of Hope - favorite verses collected by the members of The Joyful Stepmom

Memory Verse Sheet - simple verses to store in your heart

Posted on February 23rd, 2020

I was reading in Ezra this morning. In this book we are looking at the Israelite's return to Babylon -  during their time away, people had made some bad decisions. They had walked away from the will of God.

One bad decision had spiraled into many and affected crowds of people, whole families! Sound familiar? It's why I'm reading ;) As stepmoms, our lives are often dictated by the decisions of others. Many times, those decisions feel wrong.

Looking at the situation, Ezra was overcome. He was so distraught at the sin of the people and anger of God. He fell on his face weeping and praying.

Look at Ezra 10:4 - the people said "Get up, for it is your duty to tell us how to proceed in setting things straight. We are behind you, so be strong and take action." Verse 5 - "So Ezra stood up."

I have a quote in my Bible from Lori Wilhite, she has a study on Ezra called Rise Up. You can follow the clickable link or find her study on YouVersion. She writes "We can sometimes find ourselves on our backside.Maybe we made a bad decision. We might end up on our back ends because of someone else's poor decisions. Either way, we all have moments when we need to rise up. Take courage, rise up, choose faith."

Ex spouses, the court, lawyers....we all have these outside influences directing traffic in our lives. Sometimes the actions they take feel wrong, we get put in a position that is really hard to handle.

 What are you going to do about it? Sit and weep? Yes, there's a time for that. But then we need to look at the heroes of the faith. We need to Rise Up in our faith and carry on. There's more work to be done.